Blimey Trousers…!

I can’t believe it’s nearly a year since either Ruth or I have added anything to our blog

It’s not as if there’s been nothing happening…


Emma, sunset, and the Hermitage in Almenar de Soria

I have to say, a lot of Ruth’s time has been taken up by her Bandoneon, which she describes as having 4 totally different qwerty keyboards – 2 under each hand. What with 2-3 hours of daily practice, 3-4 hours a week of teaching and the time spent on organisational admin. work, it’s little wonder that she doesn’t have the head space or energy for writing about our busy lives….on yet another keyboard…!

So, I’m happy once more, to take up my ’pen’…

Having spent January in France, trying to sort out my French Citizenship and a Carte Vitale, we spent a month or so in Totnes, before taking Emma back to Germany for Bandoneon and Tango events. Meanwhile Dan, my son, finally went under the knife and suffered a double knee operation, followed by 6 months on crutches, poor dab…! Having not been able to work for most of the year, I’m delighted to report that he’s back off to India in January 24 – a follow-up project to one he started some ? years ago and for which he has initiated a go-fund-me page. Do check out his web-site for more info…. . In April we also had the joy of a Totnes visit from my daughter, Zoe and Eva – my granddaughter who began her first term at Welsh secondary school in Sept –  11yrs where did that go….?!

Photo-booth on Totnes Station

Photo-booth on Totnes Station

For a number of reasons, too many to elaborate on here, I decided to give up on my beautiful house (of 41yrs) in Cardiff…!

Tidy hedge at 147 Kings Rd..!

Tidy hedge at 147 Kings Rd..!

While it’s been extraordinary to have our extended honeymoon part-funded by the rental over the past nigh-on 10yrs, we have decided to slow down a wee bit and focus on Totnes and Ruth’s gorgeous flat. To-wit, when I was ill at the beginning of April, Ruth took herself off to Cardiff and emptied 147 Kings Rd of all my stashed away possessions and delivered them to a lock-up storage place in Totnes. Anyone who knew the house (and my penchant for antiques, ’futiques’ and car-boot sales), would know what an undertaking that was and, indeed how much ‹ Stuff › was involved – it pretty much filled 2 x 35cwt Lutons…! and took me a number of months to chip away at it. I no longer have a storage unit, having sold two thirds of my Vinyl collection and half of my glass collection BUT, the remainder is in far too many banana/plastic boxes in Ruth’s attic and what has become my room, in the flat itself. One thing I did achieve, before coming away to Spain at the beginning of November, was to build a whole stack for all the different ‹ players › – turntable, a Lenco-Goldring, which I bought (2nd hand) when I was in College in 1968 for £40… linked to a pair of 12” Goodmans, which sounds more than sweet…! thanks to a german sound-engineer in Totnes….and of course(!) a VHS and CD/DVD player….

The top-heavy stack before varnishing

The top-heavy stack before varnishing

When we return, I will take great joy in inviting the rest of the householders at Seymour Villas, to an immersive soirée chez-moi…(having bought a 40” flat screen at the local Re-Furnish…also, as it happens for £40)

Full effect...including a 'lazy-susan' CD/DVD cabinet...

Full effect…including a ‘lazy-susan’ CD/DVD cabinet…

With regards 147, it will hopefully all go through at the beginning of January, if the Spanish/British postal services don’t go on strike…

The delays have been interminable…both mine and the buyers’ surveys threw up all manner of issues – the worst of which involved the drains, which are in need of serious overhauling and gave rise to some worrying damp problems. Anyway, that’s now something the new owners will have to sort out, my having dropped the asking price accordingly… So, onwards towards a new chapter in our lives…

Meanwhile, on the dual-nationality front, I sacked the Parisian lawyer who’d fleeced me over the past three years and said, in a poorly written letter, that I was unlikely to be granted citizenship.

Two weeks later, the person who’d taken up the baton, called me to ask if I knew that my maternal grand-mother was also born in France…Seismic change of events…in place of the 2” wadge of documents I’d prepared for the French court, all I had to deliver was certificates of birth and death of my Ma (born in Alsace) and my Nonna (born in Lyon) –  I’d long held the misconception that both my grandparents had emigrated from the north of Italy (Bassetti and Berutti).

So, I am now the proud owner of a CNF  – un Certificat de Nationalité Francaise , which I picked up on the way to the 2nd Rozelaar family meet-up, at my nephew’s place in Normandy, which was a huge amount of fun, involving music, great food and convivial company…. entitled Rozstock…!

Dinner under the new canopy @ Jason & Angie's in Normandy. The last at Rozstock 2023...!

Dinner under the new canopy @ Jason & Angie’s in Normandy. The last at Rozstock 2023…!

Now, however, I’m at an impasse – my British Passport and CNF (+ Carte Vitale) are in the name of ROZELAAR but my english Birth Certificate is in the name of GREEN….Aaaargh! I thought I’d done with French bureaucracy….well, it is a French word after all ..!

Before setting off for Europe again, Emma had to have some serious welding, following a failed MOT.

We’re now in Alicante, where we’re negotiating for further bodywork to be done. We had thought of going to Morocco for the work but chanced on a Moroccan garage here and we’re waiting to hear from them. It will hopefully be cheaper here than in the UK and the morrocans are old-school in their ways, which we like – Emma is very much our 2nd home…!

Why Alicante, you might ask…? Well, it’s the home of Ruth’s Bandoneon maestro, Orlando Dibelo – a truly extraordinary player and teacher. She has 3 classes a week with him and on Sundays they meet up on Zoom, for a very wonderful request session – Bando players, other musicians, dancers and Tango lovers meet up for an hour and a half and anyone can ask for their favourite piece, which Orlando and Ruth, with only a lead-sheet to follow, serve up with no prior practice – it’s a joy to be part of the experience and if you feel like partaking, here’s the link:

We look forward to seeing you there…

Lotsalove from us both

F & R xxx

And, of course, Huge Seasonal Hugs to one and All

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After a Long Absence (can we still blame Covid?!)

I bought a little notebook at Warsaw’s Modlin airport, with the last of my Polish change. We’d travelled together to the airport and I was waiting for my return flight to Beauvais (Ruth had left for London on a much earlier flight to join Rodolfo Mederos, the Bandoneon Maestro and Gustavo Frojan, his friend and agent). We’d flown to Warsaw the week before where Rodolfo had been invited to lead a group of students and their profs at the music department of Warsaw University. Ruth had only learnt of this some 3 weeks previously and managed to get herself invited to join the group (as Bando 5).

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Although she just about held her own, she would love to have had the music a few weeks prior to the event. Nevertheless, an extraordinary opportunity, to play ‘under the baton’ of the Maestro for whom Ruth had organised a series of Masterclasses over the past two years via Zoom – this was their first meeting in the flesh.


The Palace of Culture and Science

Our arrival in Warsaw the previous week was quite something. Ruth had found a very reasonable airbnb towards which we were headed once we’d hit Warsaw Central station. If we’d got off at the correct bus stop, we would have missed out on what happened next. We were a few hundred yards walk from ‘our’ flat on the unpronouncable street, Wybrzeże Kościuszkowskie , when I spotted a dance hall on the first floor, with gathered, up-lit red curtains.

We stopped on the pavement and watched but, without hearing the music, or seeing their feet, were finding it difficult to make out what they were actually dancing. So, despite being somewhat travel-weary and still carrying our week’s luggage plus Bandoneon, we made our way upstairs to find a Milonga in full swing! We were met by the charming organiser Andrzej and Frank, getting an instant positive vibe from the place, without missing a beat, offered for Ruth to play a tanda on her Bando! Without having any idea of how competent she was, and having consulted with the DJ, he enthusiastically accepted the offer. After a few moments hesitation, the dancers started to clap in time to the music, and after no more than a few bars, the entire group was on the dance floor and revelling in the live music. By the next day, a video had been posted on Warsaw’s Tango FB page, followed by a slew of positive comments.


Despite being invited to a number of other Milongas in the city, the intensity of the rehearsal schedule at the Uni put any further activities on the backburner. However, we did manage to invite the Maestro and his charming agent to dine with us – once at our Airbnb and another time at a traditional Polish restaurant in the old city.

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Both these experiences brought us a lot closer, and apart from the final sold-out concert, were the icing on the cake.


Another slice of serendipity came our way when we spotted a Georgian Khatchapuri house and struck up a conversation with the owners, who’d only opened a month or so previously (Georgia is what brought Ruth and I together for the first time, 25 plus years ago). Whilst we were chatting and dredging up our scraps of Georgian, we fell into conversation with a very amiable customer while he waited for his takeaway order. He turned out to be a well-travelled ship’s captain and owner of the tall ship Frederyk Chopyn, a magnificent youth- training, two-master.

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We invited him to the concert, and two days later, once we’d recovered, he offered to take us out of the city, to his family home town, where he’d bought and exquisitely done up, an old cinema, and was looking to make it available for events of an as-yet undefined nature.


Ruth, despite herself, was immediately intrigued, and although she’s determined to pull back from organising events herself, was very happy to offer suggestions…

In fact, the amount of time she has spent on the computer since Covid – Zoom courses, Bandoneon events, creating flyers and organising other people’s timetables, has been thoroughly overwhelming. Add to that the four independent and random keyboards of the Bandoneon, which she still practises between 2/3 hrs a day and the more recent commitment to an online BSL course and certificated qualification, it is understandable that she wants to cut down her time in front of the screen. This is one of the reasons that I am happy to ‘pick up my pen’ once again and offer my take on our continued travels and adventures. Our blog silence in no way reflects our movements – since going to Paris in January 2020 and the subsequent lockdown there when we went to look after my stepmother, Betty and then stayed on a further six months after she died, to sort out my folk’s house and affairs and, with the invaluable help of other members of my wider family, got it ready to go on the market.

Earlier this month the sale of the said house in Belleville, Paris finally went through – creatively ‘adorned’ by one of my son Dan’s incredible paste-ups, ‘Nous Sommes Tous des Voisins’ (We Are All Neighbours)  (


This Autumn, having qualified for a 12 month, long-term Visa, I have begun the process of applying for a Carte de Séjour, which will allow me to stay in France long enough to put my dossier before a French court and apply for a French passport. This is not without its own complications. Although my mother was born in France and I therefore have a bloodline connection to the country, I had very little contact with her after my parents divorced. An added problem is that this blood link, according to an anomaly in French law, is severed after 50 years and she died in 1973… So the clock is ticking…! Furthermore, my mother died in London and it is incumbent on me to prove she lived in France for the majority of the intervening years between her divorce and her death. One of the obscure pieces of information that my lawyer had asked me to provide her with, was my mother’s Social Security number… I mean, nearly 50 years after her death…! And a few weeks into the current French ‘road-trip’, one of my first searches in the administrative centre of Normandy yielded a direct it….! Sadly, there are many more strands to pull together before I can set foot in a French court, to present my case for citizenship. Let’s hope I’m equal to the task…..

Christmas is almost upon us and despite the cold snap, if we can keep our wood-store full (earlier in the year, when Ruth’s trigger thumb was preventing her from using our bow-saw, we invested in a battery-operated chain saw …WOW, what a huge difference that’s made!) we continue to be very cosy in Emma. She’s very well insulated and heats up in minutes once the wood burner is lit. Our Winter plan is to explore parts of France we’ve not yet discovered, looking for like-minded communities, with music and Tango connections. As ‘foodies’ we’ve always hugely appreciated the open markets crammed with fresh local produce and the French’s reverence for food in general, so we’ll neither be bored nor hungry…!

For those who might be wondering, we have no intentions of putting Emma ‘out to grass’. There are still a fair number of destinations on our radar, not least Georgia, which as I mentioned earlier was the thing that brought our lives together, via the wonderful singer, choir-leader, ethnomusicologist and scholar – Edisher Garakanidze. In fact the first thing we did when we got together 10 years ago, was to fly to Tbilisi, to pay our respects to Edisher’s son Gigi who, like his father, died far too young. To witness his funeral in the then newly built cathedral in the heart of Tbilisi, where a constant stream of colleagues, friends and family filed past his open coffin for more than four hours, accompanied by half a dozen sublime and very different choirs, was an experience neither of us will ever forget….

So, given the pursuit of my French ‘papers’, we probably won’t return to the UK before the Spring. In our absence, may we take this opportunity of wishing all our friends, colleagues and family, despite the truly shocking state of the world, a very festive Christmas and New Year, in the sincere hope that 2023 will be a better year all round….

All our fondest Love

Frank and Ruth xxx

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As I’m sure many of you have experienced, travel has become much more difficult in the last two years. We’ve been forced to quarantine, due to travel, twice this year – once on our way to Germany and once on the way back home to the UK.

To quarantine in a mobile home is easy, as long as you can find someone who will let you stay on their land and we were very lucky twice. We spent our German quarantine in Freckleben, a tiny village between Magdeburg and Leipzig. The authorities require an address – ours was Auf dem Schloss 1 (no.1 The Castle).


A grand title, but really it was just a meadow and a well. The weather was hot and we had 10 days to just stop and count the bugs in the grass, of which there were so many as I hadn’t seen since my childhood!



Emma Auf Dem Schloss

Quarantine Practice Time

Quarantine Practice Time

Freckleben is a village that time forgot. As we approach it, we drive through miles of 21st century landscape – huge fields and hundreds of wind turbines – until the road takes a turn and drops down into a crack in the landscape where the nights are pitch black and grasshoppers and jackals are our neighbours. I rig up a shower from the well – the water comes from 11m depth and is only 8 degrees – brrr. Perfect for those hot summer days!


Horse on a whinch

The quarantine finishes in time for us to take part in the yearly summer festival at the castle, with entertainment that hasn’t changed for generations. Children climb on a wooden horse on tracks and, winched along by their parents, they try and spear hoops off poles. There’s a bowling alley where the main price is a local sausage, and a large effigy of a bird provides hours of entertainment for those who try and shoot at it from 25m distance to determine who is going to be this year’s Schützenkönig. Whoever wins, has to pay for a round of drinks at the end of the festival and will be collected to next year’s event by horse and cart. This year’s winner is someone from another rivaling village – Shock Horror! But, as someone points out, the good news is that he has to pay drinks for all the locals.

We were welcomed by the locals and fell in love with this quirky little village – for a few days, we even seriously considered investing in a cultural center that had fallen into a deep, 30 year long slumber. In the end we felt the task was too great – and Frank doesn’t think his German is up to living there.



Too much work…


On our way back to the UK, friends of friends offer for us to stay at their orchard near Cambridge. Yet again, we stay at a place that has its own special magic. The orchard is in fact only a small part of the land, with extended fields and forests. There are various outdoor buildings in one of the forests – a large open-air kitchen and dance space – and a magical clearing for tents. The trees in the orchard are in need of some TLC. We take on liberating one apple tree per day from the stranglehold of brambles and hawthorn. This is hard graft but very satisfying.


An apple tree covered in hawthorn and brambles

An apple tree covered in hawthorn and brambles

All in all, I’d say that to step out of our lives for 10 days and stop in one place, allowed us to get in touch with the plants and animals around us and was a really good experience for us. It brought an extra quality to this summer’s travel.

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Return to Roots (by Frank)

After a lapse of travelling, due to Covid and house renovation in Cardiff, I thought I’d pick up my pen…particularly as we find ourselves in East Anglia.

For me it’s been an extraordinary voyage of re-discovery – I was a boarder at a Grammar School near Ipswich from ‘57 to ’65. Most people, when I say I went to Boarding School, assume that it was a Public School. It was, in fact, state run and catered for an unusual mixture of inner-city boys (Londoners), sons whose parents were in the armed forces and the diplomatic corps and who had often been to 3 or 4 other secondary schools before ending up at Woolverstone Hall.


My dad lived in France and I was born in London, so I somehow fulfilled the necessary criteria. My other connection to the county of Suffolk, and indeed only a few miles from the school, was via a beautiful little village on the river Orwell, Pin Mill where, 8 years earlier, my folks were moored in an East Coast (Thames) Sailing Barge.


The Serb, in full sail, in the early 1950s

I’ll never forget, on the occasion of our first cross-country run from the school, when I recognised the shore line and announced that round the next corner we would see the Butt & Oyster, a wonderful old riverside pub. They either thought I was bonkers or psychic…The school later became Ipswich High School for Girls and on our brief visit I took a photo of one of their mini-buses, on the back of which was an aerial photo showing the ingenious use of Ha-Ha s, which by a series of stepped-down terraces, made the river appear to be at the end of the descending gardens…when, in fact, it was nearly half a mile away!


Later that week, on a visit to an osteopath in Ipswich, we parked up by the quayside and chanced upon a barge similar to ours and that could also have come from the grain merchant R & W Paul,   one of the only remaining old docks buildings nearby.

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Like so many other ports, their original hearts have been ripped out and replaced with soulless wine bars and eateries. Extraordinary to think that boats like that had 4,200 sq. ft of sail and could be ‘handled’ by just 2 people, plying their trade up and down the East coast. It reminded me of one of my Dad’s favourite stories, when welcoming a Barge captain aboard The Serb, who was to guide us down to London for the first time. My Dad asked him where his charts were and got the retort ‘What d’you need them for, you keep the land to your right!’ What he failed to mention was that he knew every single sand-bank, tidal race and wreckage buoy on the way from Pin Mill to the Thames estuary…! From Hammersmith, we sailed across the Channel and were moored in the centre of Paris for a while. Sadly, on another cross-channel trip, she sank with my Dad s first exhibition of paintings on board – along with ALL our worldly goods….

As a kid, I’d covered a 15-20 mile radius of the school by bike, as well as being taken to many churches to sing and athletics, rugby trips to other schools in the area…but it didn’t quite prepare me for the huge landscapes, skies and varieties of architecture of neighbouring county, Norfolk. I would happily return to spend longer and discover more…

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Temporary Fame – for a purpose…

One morning, Beth, a journalism masters student at the Cardiff University, knocks on our door. She wonders if she could write an article about our way of life.

It seems important right now to contribute to a positive image of travelling people’s lifestyle, when government seems hellbent on criminalising anyone who’s not in a house of bricks and mortar.

The Police, Crime, Sentencing and Courts Bill (this link will take you to the government web site where you can see the bill and watch its progress through the various stages) has brought people out in protest due to its draconian rules on the right to protest. What not many people know is that it also has sections that will hugely impact on travellers’ rights. If this bill goes through, government will have the power to impound the vehicles of anyone sleeping in them by the roadside, of charging thousands of ££ in fines, and even to put people in prison. Impounding a traveller’s vehicle means removing their home from under them! What for – so they are left living on the streets without shelter?

This is dangerously close to getting apporved.  Of course, once it’s approved there is room for interpretaion of it, and may or may not be implemented. I can’t really imagine they would impound a European holiday maker’s Motorhome if they are caught sleeping in a lay-by, and neither a lorry driver who is taking a break. But they will basically have a tool to use, and with the government’s intentions in plain sight, I think the first people to suffer from it will be traditional travelling folk. Here’s a video from someone who can explain this much better than I do, plus some links to follow up and make your voice heard. You will also hear in this video, that the other change in law will be that, once having been told to move on, travellers are banned from that location for 12 months. There is a shortage of dedicated spaces that travellers can move to. The whole situation leaves a lot to be desired already, and it’s about to get much worse.

Back to our trainee journalist. We were in two minds about sticking our heads above the parapet, so to speak, but if not people like us – who are in many ways privileged and, although hugely affected by the impending changes, are much less vulnerable than many other travellers – who else is going to speak out about these changes?

We thought a positive article about the lifestyle of a travelling couple may change people’s attitude and remove some of the fears and prejudices.

Beth wrote a lovely article about us, and a few days later, her Colleague Joseph turned up and complemented the article with a video. First it got published in the Cardiffian, the newspaper connected to the University, but soon it was picked up by Wales Online and from there it went into a national paper whose name I don’t want to sully my blog with.

We sat and waited for the backlash. Is the police or the Council going to move us, are people going to accost us? Nothing of the sort, so far! On the contrary, the one big change it made is, that now lots of people are talking to us when they pass by – somehow the article has broken the ice, or the British Reserve. “It says in the article you’d like us to come and talk with you, so we are here” they say, by way of introduction. Many of them must have previously walked past us, studiously looking the other way, maybe so as not to disturb us.

We love the change – it’s like being elsewhere in Europe now :-)

Thank you to Beth and Joseph


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In defense of the travelling life

One day, when parked up in a car park by the riverside on the edge of Cardiff, a man knocks on our door. He’s part of the local “keep an eye on your neighbourhood” group and he wants to know what we are doing in this car park.

I love talking to people, so I never have a problem with anyone knocking on the door to make a genuine conversation. It’s a shame though  that in this case it starts on a hotbed of negative assumptions. While I’m pretty quickly able to convince him that we don’t leave rubbish, don’t do drugs and are quiet and considerate people, he still has misgivings. Even the fact that we clean the car park on a regular basis of debris that others just throw out of their car windows, doesn’t allay his fears.

What if our presence invites those other travellers that are real trouble, the ones that leave a terrible mess and take ages to evict, he says?

I sort of get where he is coming from, as I’ve seen how some places look once people have been, with no care for their environment. But I don’t agree with his conclusions.


Here is another way of looking at it:

1) Our presence in a car park means that:

a) We pick up litter on a regular basis

b) Others feel less inclined to engage in undesirable night activities (no-goodnicks feel watched by us)

c) If another mobile home were to turn up and abuse the place, we would knock on their door and challenge them on it.

So actually, having a caring traveller in a car park is a good thing!


2) Where else do you forbid something to everyone, just because a minority does not behave sociably? For example, would you forbid owning dogs, just because one dog owner lets their dog shit on the pavement? Would you forbid all front gardens in a road, if one garden is not kept to specifications? If one child of yours misbehaves, do you punish all your children?

When looked at it like this, I hope you can see how travellers feel discriminated against.


What is really behind the fear of accepting someone in your neigbourhood who leads a life different from yours?

In this day and age of climate emergency, shouldn’t we be welcoming people who choose to live a simpler life, with a lighter environmental footprint?

Considering the fact that life in a mobile home is also much more economical than owning or renting a house, this life style sometimes becomes a creative and empowered alternative to being homeless for people who fall on hard times. Shouldn’t it be in society’s interest to cater for people (by providing simple dedicated spaces, or allowing car parks to be used) who, by choice or necessity, are travelling folk?

Busking on the Bridge in Sophia Gardens, Cardiff

Busking on the Bridge in Sophia Gardens, Cardiff

I visualise a more welcoming solution. Dedicated spaces in every town or city, maybe simple facilities, and a basic ‘rent’. Like a car parking fee, not like a camp site. One could even specify that people need to move after a certain period of time, to avoid people settling (although this would only work if there were enough sites to move to).

The British don’t have this kind of negative attitude towards boat people. Somehow, living on a boat is more accepted, more romantic maybe? What’s the difference – the wheels?

In France, these places are called Aires. Here in Cardiff, there is no such dedicated space, but we’ve been fine on the car parks – we have largely been met with tolerance, even bordering on friendliness. The Police, the car park wardens and anyone else in a position of authority have been very friendly (we make a point of making contact with them, to allay any possible fears). Any trouble we had came from people who live nearby. That’s sad, don’t you think? How do we negatively impact on their lives, I wonder, that they would feel the need to get us moved on?


Spontaneous get-together with a violinist.

We enrich the neighbourhood, we bring live music and laughter (at reasonable daylight hours, not night parties! We go to sleep when the sun is down!). we’re also always willing to lend a hand where help is needed, as those who’ve followed our blog know.

Travellers have an age-old profession of bringing the arts (music, dance, performance), being seasonal helpers, and also being a carrier of news. We meet lots of people, and sometimes we are able to put people in touch with each other when we realise they share a common concern or project. We are a live version of Facebook!

If you pass by, do knock on the door for a chat!

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It’s 7 years ago that Frank and I tied the knot, in a small informal ceremony in the company of our children. Seven years on and we’re still deeply in love.

One of the many things that make it so special for me is that we never go to sleep in a huff with each other, never share a bed on a discordant note. We speak about what troubles us, we listen to each other and find harmony. We’ve sailed through calm and stormy times around us this way, but never lost sight of each other. There are no unresolved upsets between us.

You are a golden soul, my precious husband, and I consider myself so blessed to spend my days in your presence. I’d say YES again, no hesitation!

We celebrated the day with a special, home delivered Georgian Feast.


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2021 – New Beginnings

Good people,

This morning, we woke to Ice on the windows of our Emma. Inside!



It’s a beautiful morning here in Cardiff, but too cold for our daily swim in the Taff, so instead I swing myself onto my bike and cycle, despite the frozen Gel pad saddle and gears, through Bute park to the shops.




The river gives off clouds of steam, especially near the weirs where white water crashes down the usually gently moisted slope. It’s been raining for days on end, storm Christoph has meant people elsewhere in the UK having to sandbag, or even evacuate, their homes. Every evening, I anxiously watch the online flood warnings so as to move Emma away from the river car park if needed, but somehow the Taff is not on the list of flood warnings, and indeed although high, I have seen it higher before without any problem to the car park.

It’s been a year of sorting through stuff in various houses – Paris, Devon and Cardiff. A year of engaging in old, dusty matter, to shift what is no longer needed.

There is light at the end of this particular Tunnel. Soon we will be able to fold our life back into Emma and live by the daily rhythms that this more simple life dictates; finding wood, chopping it, lighting the fire, find water if needed, clean the van if needed (which doesn’t take nearly as long as cleaning a house!) practise, busking, cooking, reading etc.

Doing a clothes wash is a more exciting event which takes best part of a day and involves meeting new people, from finding a launderette to having everything washed and dried, rather than chucking a load into the washer at home while doing another 15things at the same time.

I look forward to the simplicity, despite the ice on the windows – inside.


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Entering 2019



Frosty Forests

Dear all,

It’s been a while since my last post. Life hasn’t stopped however, it’s just taken a turn that invited me to spend some time on a ‘retreat’ from sharing our lives with you all.

In case you were worried by the long silence, Frank and I are still on our extended honeymoon, now in its 5th winter, we’re still madly in love with each other and travelling in Emma, our lovely home on wheels.

This winter, we went to the South of France where I’ve been taking a series of Bandoneon lessons with Fernando Maguna, an extraordinary teacher of this fiendishly difficult instrument. It is a gift to myself to immerse myself in practice and lessons, and it may well be the reason why I have gone quiet – by the time I have finished my three hours practice every day, I really don’t feel like touching another keyboard. My mind is scrambled by the intricacies of music, perched on the rocky foundations of navigating the four ever-shifting keyboards (if you don’t know what I’m talking about, ask a bandoneonist next time you meet one!). I’m making great progress in building up practice stamina, however actual progress on the instrument is painfully slow. I know, I have a strange notion of what constitutes a gift :-)

We’ve mainly spent time in the region between Marseille and Avignon, an easy train ride away from my weekly lesson. Frank went away to India in December (in search of healing for his wheezing lungs which have not got better since July!) to subject himself to an Ayurvedic cure from which he returned somewhat stronger but unfortunately not fully healed. After his return, we took off to explore the French Pyrenees west of Toulouse and down to the coast. We shivered in sub zero temperatures and boiled ourselves in wild hot springs, we saw beautifully frosty forests and met people and communities with Living Projects ranging from Amazing to Downright Crazy.

Throughout our journey this winter, we’ve been on the lookout for a place where we might like to establish a foothold in Europe, to dock onto a community for the winter months in years to come, but nothing yet has come even close to the treasures we know we have at home!

The Tango Music and Dance calendar for 2019 is filling up and I’ve spent some time doing online work for it, although I know I’m pitifully behind. The computer keyboard has truly been neglected this winter… but below is a first schedule and I promise to try and update relevant pages on the website etc., in the near future.

So before I disappear back into my musical retreat, I wish you all a very good start into the year. Let’s hope it will turn out to be an amazingly positive one. Crisis is an opportunity for positive change!

Over and out…. (back to Bando)

Ruth xxxx


February 9th: Teaching a day of workshops (various levels) in the region of Avignon in Sorgues, at Adelaide’s Tango Studio called Media Luna

February 17th: Teaching a two hour beginners workshop in the region of Avignon, in Chateauneuf de Gadagne at a Cultural centre called Akwaba (link to follow)

March 29th-April 7th: Teaching at the TangoLab in Proitze

May 9th-12th: Hosting the 3rd International Bandoneon Days in Staufen, South Germany

Spring 2019 (dates to come!): Workshops and / or classes & private lessons in Totnes and possibly other places in the UK

June 29th-July 7th: A week of Tango teaching with Ines Moussavi on Vis, a beautiful Island in Croatia.

July 19th-27th: Teaching at the TangoLab in Proitze

August 5th: Teaching a workshop in Plymouth to the French visitors from Bretagne ( I will check if this is open to others too)

August 14th-16th: Orquesta Tipica Workshop in Devon

August 16th-25th: Tango Mango (already fully booked!)






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Last Stop

We’re up at dawn and go for a quick dip in the sea, with the guys from the military looking on with incomprehension. Who would chose to jump into such cold water? Their faces seem to say.

By the time the sun rises, we are already on our way. We stop for breakfast somewhere high up on the cliffs. Just when we’ve sat down to a plateful of scrambled eggs, a boy appears, satchel on his back. He starts to talk to us in Arabic. How I wish I could understand more. But it is clear that he wants money from us. All through Morocco, we have searched for ways to deflect this energy of begging into a more positive contact, a more fulfilling and lasting exchange. This time, it is hard. The boy is in some kind of distress. I don’t understand what he’s saying. We offer him food but he declines and wants money. He starts crying. He says something about his parents, or his family, and something else about his school. My guess is that he has to pay for something in school that his family cannot afford. Or maybe he’s putting on a really good show of distress. If we had more language between us, I’d be able to react more adequately. From everything we have seen in the last months, it doesn’t make sense to just give him money. Let’s say, it is as I seem to have understood. He needs money for school. Lets say we give him some and he delivers it. What does that solve in the long run? Next time he needs money, it’s the same story. Also, how do his parents feel if as a foreigner I help out with something that they would like to be able to offer themselves?

It could also be that he was a refugee, but in that case I would have thought he’d gladly accept the food.

Eventually he walks away. As soon as he’s gone, I see other solutions to this situation. I should have offered to come with him to the school, or to somewhere where there’s an adult who can translate, to find out what really is the matter. This would either have called his bluff, and/or I might have been able to really help him in some way. I feel so sluggish sometimes. All my creative thinking goes out the window when in a situation!

I look out for him as we travel on, but cannot see him anywhere along the road.

Before we head for Tangier, we stop off once more in Tetouan. The old medina is calling us once more, to stock up with spices and dried fruit, and to immerse ourselves one more time in the beautiful chaos, full of colours, sounds and smells, that makes the Moroccan markets so inimitable.


We get lured into a beautiful ancient Pharmacy, with shelves upon shelves of jars full of mysterious herbs and spices.


Our last stop in Morocco is not far from Tangier harbour. We have arranged to meet up with a lovely young German family we met in a campsite some weeks ago. As we follow a bumpy road through the hills for the last 20 miles to Tangier, rain settles in properly, running down the roads and turning any earth patches into mud bogs. The landscape could be northern Spain, or even Wales, witha  bit of imagination…


We park up next to the family’s 4×4 and invite them for a meal chez restaurant Rozelaar. We talk about our travel and share plans for the future. Their older child, a boy of 6 years, wants to go to school, so it’s time to settle down and they are heading back to Germany to buy a house, having traveled for a couple of years. It’s nice to see their happy anticipation for this next chapter in their lives.

Despite the rain and windy gusts, Frank and I take a little trip to the local market. We get chatting to a street vendor and the conversation turns to the King. Just as we have heard it all across Morocco, there is a strong support and admiration for the king from this man. He tells us that just the other week, the King came by in a car, just him and his cousin, no bodyguards.

We want to write a letter to the King.

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